For clarity, I as duke of Jack discussed at massive, interminable length, a merger with with Jungle dukes. FWIW, and not terribly relevant, both in my discussions with Jungle and my discussions with Jack members, we used the term merger all the way through.
The discussion within Jack was kept within about half the tribe. We wanted to avoid being part of the rumour mill and knew we had a couple of spies in the lower echelons of the tribe. We did succeed in keeping the merge secret, which was an achievement.
Jack was an odd beast, as has been noted here on several occasions. While there were a bunch of good/great/active players, there was another bunch who were great guys and fun to be around but were either not active or did not have enough understanding of the game to be considered for a merge with a tribe of Jungle's quality.
FWIW, I feel I let down the smaller guys in Jack. At one point I hoped we could get them into Dynis but they filled up. Then there was a possibility with Zoo, a training tribe, but that fell through. In the end, I failed to find them a home.
Again, for clarity, with the exceptions of Jack of Shana, Jack Par, and Jack Sprat, those who stayed behind in Jack only knew of the merge as it started to happen. I am split as to whether it would have been sensible to try to involve them or not in the discussions. Morally yes, practically no.
It would be no surprise to me if they felt bitter towards me. OTOH, I think they are unlikely ever to read these forums.
The Jack trusted members voted 2 times on the Jungle merger, both times with significant majorities. There was significant, and vociferous opposition from 2/3 people - Par and Shana primarily. (Hi Jack!).
The motivations for the merge? My personal one was increasingly that I wasn't able/willing to duke the tribe and nor was anyone else. There was also the massive and obvious strategic benefits. Once we have finished with Dynis, the expanded Jungle rules the East/North-east pretty much unchallenged.
Meh. This became long and self-justifying. Oh well.
Edit: I'm glad to see good team players from Jack have joined with some from Dynis to make Se. Don't underestimate them. (There, that makes it a top 20 opinion
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