I will only comment on number 2 because I am too busy and bored at the same time about the rest
I dumped my 1 month tribemates who hasn't offered me anything besides 1-2 people to join a better tribe for my own wellbeing. Well yes I admit that and I believe I made the best choice. When I joined uk9 I entered a tribe without solid leadership and most of the players were either inactive or did not know the game well.
I made 1-2 friendships and decided that after council was falling apart to look after ourselves and not just stick to this tribe to prove our "kindness" or "loyalty" to whatever belief you are talking about.
If all that makes you think I am a noob/dump/traitor or whatever, I could not care less and so be it.
Lots of love and kisses
P.S. Your wife spanks you?? Mine does that also, I feel you